Long Distance Relationship

Hulla! Aku kembali lagi, sebenernya lagi males aja nulis pake bahasa inggris soalnya otaknya lagi kuprogram berbahasa Indonesia karena sambil ngerjain laporan dari kantor juga huehue..

Hmm, topik blog kali ini sebenernya udah lama banget kepikiran tp yah balik lagi masalah waktu jadinya baru sempat sekarang.

Long Distance Relationship, hubungan jarak jauh dan sepertinya istilah ini lebih cocok ke pasangan-pasangan yang terpisah jarak, bisa jadi antar kota, antar propinsi, antar pulau, antar negara, bahkan antar benua! Terpisah jarak bisa jadi terpisah antara zona waktu, seperti hubungan Indonesia- Singapore (beda 1 jam), Indonesia-Australia (beda 4 jam), Indonesia- London (beda 6 jam), Indonesia- US (beda 12 jam-15 jam). oalah! SUSAH YA!

Sebenernya aku udah cukup berpengalaman dalam menjalin long distance relationship ini, dan aku akuin banget kalo itu ga mudah sama sekali, ribet banget. Mungkin kalo orang-orang bilang masalah pertama adalah masalah kepercayaan, di aku, trust sudah tidak menjadi masalah karena hubungan aku dan si pacar udah cukup lama. kedua masalah komunikasi, yaa ini masalah dikit lah, karena kadang waktu yang ga cocok di kedua belah pihak. Kadang pas aku-nya lagi sibuk , dy-nya santai, atau sebaliknya. Jadi ya kadang2 sulit utk cari titik temu nya. Tp so far so good.

Nah masalah ketiga ini! Ketemuannya.. OMFG! susah banget nyari waktu utk ketemu, kadang aku yang sibuk, dy yang sibuk, kadang 2-2 nya lagi santai tp keadaan ga memungkinkan. RIBET RIBET RIBET.

Nah dari 3 masalah di atas itu, banyak orang yang ga bisa tahan sama Long Distance Relationship ini karena sifat egois dan pengen diperhatiin, sebenernya itu juga yang terjadi ama diri aku di awal-awal hubungan, dan yang dituntut dari kita masing-masing adalah kedewasaan kita dalam menanggapi semua kendala. Banyak temen-temen aku yang ga bisa LDR karena masalah kebersamaan, tetapi kalo menurut aku pribadi selagi bisa dipertahankan kenapa tidak..

Banyak cara yang bisa dilakuin dalam memelihara LDR ini, terutama masalah komunikasi itu sekarang udah gampang banget, tarif telvon dah murah banget dan ada blackberry, YM, MSN, Facebook! alaaaah, udah gampang deh..

Kalo masalah kepercayaan, ya saran aku sih jangan parno n curigaan yang ngga-ngga.. yang penting percaya..

Nah tapi masalah ketiga, ya balik lagi ke pasangan masing2 gimana nge-arrange jadwal ketemuan yang cocok.. hoho.

kalo gt segini dulu deh, CIAO

 

Good Bye 2009 Welcome 2010

Hello readers!

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!

How’s your New Year’s Eve? Was it fun?

This is my first post in 2010! Actually, I found nothing’s fun by putting: this is my first blablabla in 2010, but many ppl posted it in Twitter, like: my first lunch in 2010, my first poo-poo in 2010! And I tried to do so, but once again I found nothing’s fun!

Uh ya, have u listed down your resolutions for 2010? I haven’t made mine yet because I’m quite busy these days, I have reports to be done, presentations to be done and to be practiced, I have essays to be written, it’s abt 1000 words abt creating the new product or new innovation. Things to do but I’ve promised to list down all my resolutions after I finish this bloody things! HA!

Well, I did nothing in New Year’s Eve, I didn’t attend to parties, I didn’t hold barbeque party, I didn’t buy trumpet, I didn’t hold special dinner. My NYE was just plain, but I didn’t regret it because I want to spend my NYE by reflecting what I’ve get and what I’ve done in 2009.

Talking about 2009. I think this year is very special for me because it’s my graduation year! And it’s not that easy to get to get the toga and graduation certificate. Long way to get Bachelor on Management on my name, I had to pass all the subjects, finish the final project, attend the judgement and VOILA I graduated with cum laude. I also experience working life in 2009 (I’m still 19) , my first job in a bank, meet many types of people and must deal with some problems too. However, I had to enjoy it, whether I like it or not! and I’ll give you my history in 2009

January 2009

I became 19 and I was so happy at the time because my friends held surprise party for me. Although it’s not the big one, but I was so happy. Thanks girls. My parents gave me Blackberry as birthday present and yeah I got a lot of phone calls from many countries. =) I spent my Chinese New Year in Jakarta because I have to do some shopping to prepare my HNMUN trip to Boston and New York. It’s not easy to find warm enough coat and killing boots. But the bad thing about January was my relationship with my bf was not that good.

February 2009

February was so fun because I was so excited about US Trip! But my relationship was getting worse and I decided to end it on this month. Oh yeah it was so sad but I must be strong! and several days after it, I went to Boston to attend conference and hell yeah! we went to New York! I went there for 2 weeks, actually I didn’t want to come back because it was so fun there. After the trip, I should face my campus life, many tasks, final project, love-life. I tried to have time management since this month.

March 2009

uuuh. unstoppable assignments! but the more assignments I had, the more time I could spend time with my friends because we did it together. March is important to me because I changed my final project topic and made people thought that I’m crazy! haha. and I think I reunited with my bf this month (sorry I forgot the exact month and date)

April 2009

Nothing’s special, except final project, assignments, you know campus life! Oh yaa, I went to Singapore this month to visit my best friend. I gained kilograms and it made me shocked and cried. After the trip, I hit the gym everyday and spent my evening there. I didn’t eat fries, noodle, ice. freakin killing diet and it works

May 2009

3 years celebration with my bf, my last final exam, prepared the final project, tried to look for some jobs, gym and so on. hell yeah!

June 2009

More job offerings, more test, less time, harder final project and gym!

July 2009

Last chapter of final project, less gym, more traveling to Jakarta because I have to attend many tests. I also bought Lady Gaga ticket concert in Singapore. I love Gaga!

August 2009

The Judgement! It’s 10th August, it felt like my heart’s gonna explode but thank God I can pass it with an A! but after it, I was hospitalized and cancelled to watch Lady Gaga’s concert. I sold the ticket to another ppl. I came back to Padang for some recoveries, met some friends, had a lot of fun there! came back to Bandung

September 2009

Collect the fixed Final Project, Attended to a wedding, travelled to Australia. September was FUN, except the giant earthquake, I was there and it changed my life perfectly.

October 2009

First day working. I was so nervous, I was on training and had no friends with same age, I had to meet people who are more senior than me but I could handle it

Graduation day! and I am bachelor of management now. Yiii ha.. and of course, my first salary

November December 2009

working working and working. welcome boring life.

Well, 2009 taught me to think in adult, to be more patient, to think first before act, to always be grateful and not too much complain. 2009 is my year!

I pray the best for 2010 and I hope I can get more knowledge in this year.

once again

HAPPY NEW YEARR!!

 

Merry Christmas!

Hey you all!

I’m writing on Christmas Eve!

Merry Christmas! May your Christmas be merry and joyful and I wish your Christmas be AWESOME!

Have a great Christmas!

 

backpacking to Java, Sulawesi, Kalimantan?

hello readers!

It is long weekend! and what are you doing in this long weekend? Umm, I do nothing in this long weekend because I have no plans for it, honestly, I looked for some tickets to go to Singapore (again), but the result is very surprising. All travel agents told me that no more tickets to Singapore, every flight! and I think that Indonesian is crazy (so do I haha!)

Well, two of my friends go to Yogyakarta for this long weekend, and I quite envy them because I’ve never been to Yogya, Semarang, Surabaya, Solo, or other parts of Java excepts Jakarta, Bogor, Bandung! I’ve never been to Kalimantan, Sulawesi, or Papua also. I’ve ever been to Bali only once, when I was junior high school and I totally don’t remember how it was! and now I think I should explore more about Indonesia, especially Bunaken, Bali, Borobudur, Prambanan and so on. So, I must stop to go to Singapore haha! 

Since I work and I can earn my own money, I think I should do some traveling with my friends, and backpacking is a good idea. Okay! I’m starting to look for the cheap yet safe accommodation to go there

Oh, I think that’s all for my thoughts today! cya in my next posts, readers!

 

quick sweet escape

Hulla back, readers. Uh, I am not in the mood for working. I have told you in my last blog that I have reports to be done and handouts to be read, but still, I don’t have any intention to finish it. And now, what am I doing now? I’m talking with my mates about marriage, uh oh, long way to marriage still because I’m still nineteen. Actually I just don’t understand about it and I’m back to my laptop to write blog!

Well, I just came back from Singapore for quick sweet escape and it was really sweet because I enjoyed this holiday so much. I’ve travelled a lot to many countries but Singapore is my favorite country because I can walk alone there and being autis because nobody knows me HA! I also love the food, such as carrot cake, soya bean, old chang kee, uuuh..  The perfect time to go there is in December because the Christmas vibe and the decoration, they have Christmas tree made by Ferrero Roche and also Santa Claus and the Reindeers.. It makes me sooooooo… (I can’t describe it). Oh, but I can’t post some picture in this blog, there is something wrong with my camera, but I promise to post it soon, especially the decoration.. uuh..

Okay, I think I should stop writing about Singapore and starting to write about Indonesia.

Cya readers

 

long time no see

hey readers! howdy!

it’s been months since the last time I updated my blog. Well,  many things happened in months. from the happiest one to the saddest one. Oh, the last time I updated my blog is September 10th, actually I don’t remember what happened after that day.

umm, I went to Australia for Lebaran Holiday. uu that was so fun, I enjoyed Gold Coast so much because I love beach life, and they have great theme park, forgot the name, but it’s so famous, just google it ppl! oh I love Sydney too, but there was Red Dust Storm in my first day @ Sydney. I enjoyed it too, because never seen it before haha! Melbourne is good and love it so much.. I wish I can go back there some day, for holiday or school or work or anything.

But unfortunately, after came back from Australia, I got fever and I had to go back to Padang because my mom asked me, actually I didn’t want to go back to Padang, the hot and boring city, but I have to. Well, I did nothing @ Padang, I didn’t go to my dad’s office, I just stayed at home, and went to saloon for some refreshing, but in the last day at Padang before came back to Bandung, the earthquake happened and it was so scary. So sorry I don’t want to tell you more because it’s kinda traumatic for me and honestly I tried to forget it.

After the earthquake, I went to Jakarta and Bandung for some graduation ceremony (it makes me happy) and yay ! I am an employee right now. I work in a bank but sorry, I won’t mention the name.

So far, I enjoy my work because I have a lot of friends here and they are so kind to me. Same as before, I am always be the youngest person because I always use ‘fast-track’ in my education. However, only one thing that always makes me get annoyed, which is  one of my friends always think that I’m childish just because my age! uuuh stop it, old lady, I know that I’m very young but it doesn’t mean I’m not professional. Uh oh, forget it. haha!

umm, I am having on-the-job training now. Quite fun but it’s so boriiiiiing, what I have to do is only watching people work and yah, I just watch it. Makes me boring. BOO!

Uh Oh okay. I have to go because I still have things (reports) to do..

Bye Readers.

Cya

 

quote for today

“If you want to make peace, you don’t talk to your friends. You talk to your enemies.” – Moshe Dayan

 

cooking dinner is fun

MAKAN?! semua orang pasti suka makan, walaupun ga suka tp tetep harus makan kan karena kalo ga makan bakal lemes, kalo lemes ntar bisa sakit.

Kalo menurut ahli gizi sih, makan itu sebaiknya 3 kali sehari, makan pagi, siang, dan malam. Kalo menurut gw, yang paling penting adalah sarapan pagi karena biasanya kalo gw ga sarapan pagi, gw bakal pusing dan males seharian walaupun siangnya udah makan. Mindset yang agak2 ngaco sih, tp yah mau gimana, udah kebiasaan juga dari kecil. heheh

Dulu pas masih di Padang, gw ga pernah deh mikirin siang ini makan apa ya? malam makan apa ya? bangun pagi, pasti udah sarapan di meja, kadang mie kuah, roti panggang, nasi goreng. wah enak deh.. trus abis sarapan, ke sekolah, pulang sekolah, eh udah ada aja tuh berbagai lauk pauk masakan sang mama di atas meja. Karena gw orangnya ga rewel ya udah dimakan semuanya.

Tapi semenjak ngekos di Bandung, makan adalah masalah utama karena ga ada yang nyiapin. Pusing banget nyari sendiri, awalnya sih enak karena masih bisa nyoba2 gitu, lama2 eneg juga karena udah ga tau maw makan dimana dan satu2nya jalan adalah MASAK SENDIRI!

Jadi ceritanya malem ini gw masak makan malam sendiri gitu, makanannya hari ini adalah TAHU ISI, TUMIS BAYAM, NASI GORENG PUTIH.. banyak sih emang, tp utk makan berdua juga, jadi yah oke lha. cukup kok hhehee..

yang ribet sih cuma tahu isi, tp kalo masak sih intinya harus sabar.. haha! dan ga terburu2.

Tahu Isi by Friska

Ini ya resep Tahu Isi (untuk 8 potong)

Bahan:

4 tahu besar, potong segitiga, keluarin isinya

100 gr daging sapi cincang

1 butir telur

1 batang daun bawang, iris

bawang merah, bawang putih, halusin

2 sdm tepung sagu

garam secukupnya, merica secukupnya

Cara memasak:

1. Keluarin isi tahunya, yang dikeluarin digabungin jadi 1

2. Bahan yang lain, dicampurin jadi satu dan digabungin ama isi tahu

3. Goreng sampe matang.

Oke ya, segitu dulu hari ini,, kalo masak pake feeling lebih oke deh kayaknya, biasanya gw selalu pake feeling dan ga pernah matokin harus berapa banyak,,

ciao

 

09.09.09 dan Perahu Kertas

hulla! I am back  :)

oiya. happy 999 all. actually nothing’s special in this day, although it’s triple nine, yah,, nothing’s special! but one of my friends wrote in her twitter like “let’s make 9 wishes!”

ngapain hari ini?

sebenernya gw cukup sibuk hari ini, pagi2 ke kampus, validasi TA yayy! it’s done. and then back home! I’m not feeling well today, the cough is killing me.. so I just read one of the greatest novel. PERAHU KERTAS, by Dee. It’s so recommended, ceritanya ringan banget, lucu, bikin penasaran, alurnya bagus dan ga ngebosenin,, yah sampe sekarang gw masih terus membaca dan sepertinya malam ini ga kemana-mana karena maw baca novel ini. So I spend “triple nine day” by reading Perahu Kertas!

Salute for Dee! Keep writing..

Oia, novel2 Sitta Karina juga recommended banget loh.!

 

snow leopard

talking about snow leopard, the newest OS from Mac always makes me laugh. Actually I’m not Mac mania or Mac fanatic. The only reason why I bought this MacBook is to avoid viruses. My daddy gave it to me actually, everything has been installed and the only thing that I need to do is use it wisely ! haha.

Last week, I just found out that Apple has released the newest OS, called Snow Leopard, the price is yah OKAY $29 and I am not that interested until the next day when I talked with Eric.

Eric: “Fris, I wanna go to PVJ, I wanna ask about Snow Leopard.”

Me: Oh, I read about it yesterday. It’s kinda cheap, right?

Eric: Yes! and the performance is great.

Me: Oic!

and then the next day after that conversation, I went to Jakarta because of some businesses, and I visited iBox. I asked about Snow Leopard and they had it, the last one~~ (LUCKY ME YAAAAY!). and I bought it. Yes, my MacBook uses SNOW LEOPARD.

How about Eric? Unfortunately, he haven’t got it. I pray for him

by the way, Snow Leopard is recommended!